Massage
Last reviewed: January 10, 2025·Originally published: December 24, 2025
Written by Nusu Editorial Team with AI assistance
Reviewed by Vince Roddy, LMT — Licensed Massage Therapist, 21 years clinical practice
How to Find a Good Massage Therapist for Your Needs
Massage therapy can be a calming, full-body session or targeted work for a specific concern. A good match depends on your goals, your comfort, and the therapist's training and communication. This guide helps you compare options, ask clear questions, and know what to expect before your first visit.
Some situations need extra caution. If you are pregnant, in active medical treatment, recovering from surgery, or managing a health condition, check with your clinician before booking and look for a therapist with relevant training. Massage is supportive care, not a substitute for diagnosis or medical advice.
What Type of Massage Do You Need?
Start with your goal. Labels vary by school and state, but these are common terms you may see.
| Your goal | Labels you might see | What to ask |
|---|---|---|
| Relaxation, stress management, general wellness | Relaxation massage, Swedish, gentle flow | Ask about pressure, pace, and full-body coverage. |
| Muscle tension or tight areas | Deep tissue, therapeutic, targeted work | Ask about comfortable pressure and aftercare. |
| Athletic recovery or training support | Sports massage | Ask about experience with your sport and recovery routines. |
| Pregnancy or postpartum comfort | Prenatal or perinatal massage | Ask about prenatal training and safe positioning. |
| Cancer treatment or fragile health | Oncology massage | Ask about specialized training and care team coordination. |
| Swelling or lymphedema | Lymphatic drainage, lymphedema therapy | Ask about certified training and medical clearance. |
| Injury rehab or post-surgical support | Clinical or medical massage | Ask how they coordinate with your clinician or physical therapist. |
If a label sounds unfamiliar, ask the therapist to describe their approach, training, and experience with your goal.
Relaxation vs targeted care
Relaxation sessions focus on comfort and overall relaxation. Targeted or therapeutic sessions focus on a specific concern. Neither is better on its own; it depends on your goal.
Relaxation sessions often:
- Use broad, flowing strokes and full-body coverage
- Prioritize comfort and calm
- Use lighter to moderate pressure
Targeted sessions often:
- Start with a brief assessment of the area of concern
- Spend more time on specific muscles or regions
- Involve ongoing feedback about pressure and sensation
Common Massage Techniques Explained
Understanding what different techniques involve can help you communicate your preferences and choose the right approach for your needs. For additional research, the NIH National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health provides evidence-based information on massage therapy.
Swedish massage
Swedish massage is one of the most widely practiced styles and is often a good starting point if you are new to massage. It typically uses long, flowing strokes, kneading, and gentle circular movements and is often used in relaxation-focused sessions.
What it feels like: Most people describe Swedish massage as soothing and rhythmic. Pressure ranges from light to moderate, and the pace tends to be steady and calming. You may feel warmth as muscles are worked, and many people find it helps them unwind.
Deep tissue massage
Deep tissue massage focuses on the deeper layers of muscle and connective tissue. It can be helpful for chronic muscle tension or areas that feel persistently tight. The therapist may use slower strokes and more focused pressure.
What it feels like: Deep tissue work is more intense than Swedish massage. You may feel significant pressure and some discomfort, especially in areas of tension. However, pain is not required for the work to be effective. If the pressure feels too strong, let your therapist know so they can adjust.
Trigger point therapy
Trigger points are areas of tightness within muscle tissue that can cause localized pain or refer discomfort to other parts of the body. These spots often feel like a knot or thickened area within the muscle. Trigger point therapy involves applying focused pressure to these areas to help release tension.
What it feels like: You may feel a brief, intense sensation when a trigger point is pressed. Some people describe it as a "good hurt" that leads to relief. The therapist will typically hold pressure for several seconds before releasing. Coordinated breathing helps with trigger point release; slow, deep exhales while pressure is applied can help the muscle relax more effectively. Your therapist may guide you through this breathing pattern during the work.
Many therapists use a 1-10 scale to gauge pressure, where 0 is too light, 10 is maximum pain, and around 7 is generally ideal. Clear feedback helps your therapist adjust and work effectively.
Sports massage
Sports massage is designed to support athletic training and recovery. It may include a combination of techniques tailored to your sport and specific muscle groups you use most. Some therapists offer pre-event work to prepare muscles and post-event work to aid recovery.
What it feels like: Sports massage can range from invigorating to deeply relaxing, depending on timing and goals. Pre-event work tends to be more stimulating, while recovery-focused sessions may be slower and more restorative.
Myofascial release
Myofascial release targets the fascia, the connective tissue that surrounds muscles throughout the body. When fascia becomes restricted, it can contribute to pain and limited movement. This technique uses sustained pressure and stretching to help release these restrictions.
What it feels like: Myofascial work is often slow and gradual. You may feel a stretching or pulling sensation as the therapist holds pressure. Some people notice a sense of release or opening in areas that felt stuck.
Massage Therapy Specializations at a Glance
Specialization labels can overlap. Training and experience matter more than the name alone.
| Specialization | Common focus | Safety notes |
|---|---|---|
| Clinical or medical massage | Recovery support and symptom-focused care | Ask how they coordinate with medical care when needed. |
| Sports massage | Recovery, mobility, and training support | Ask about sport-specific experience. |
| Oncology massage | Comfort during or after cancer treatment | Look for specialized training and care team guidance. |
| Lymphatic drainage | Swelling management and lymphatic support | Seek certified lymphedema training and medical clearance. |
| Prenatal or perinatal | Pregnancy and postpartum comfort | Look for prenatal training and safe positioning. |
| Myofascial or neuromuscular | Focused work for tension patterns | Ask about assessment and pressure comfort. |
Session Details: What to Know Before You Book
Typical session lengths
Massage sessions are commonly offered in about 30, 60, or 90-minute increments. Choosing the right length depends on your goals and how much time you want to spend.
About 30-minute sessions work well for focused work on a specific area, such as neck and shoulders, or for people who want a quick reset. These sessions typically do not include full-body coverage.
About 60-minute sessions are the most common choice. This length allows time for either a full-body relaxation massage or more detailed work on a few problem areas. Many first-time clients find this a good starting point.
About 90-minute sessions provide time for comprehensive full-body work or deeper attention to multiple areas of concern. If you have several areas that need attention, a longer session may be worth considering.
Some therapists also offer about 120-minute sessions or custom lengths. Ask about options if your needs do not fit standard offerings.
General pricing guidance
Pricing varies significantly by location, setting, and therapist experience. Urban areas and specialized practices tend to have higher rates than suburban locations or chain establishments. Independent practitioners may price differently than those working in spas or clinics.
Rather than providing specific numbers that may not apply to your area, ask for clear pricing upfront when you contact a therapist. Request information about:
- The cost per session length
- Whether gratuity is included or expected
- Package or membership options if offered
- Cancellation or late arrival policies
What to wear
You will typically undress to your comfort level. Most people remove clothing for the areas being worked on, but you should never feel pressured to undress more than you are comfortable with.
You will be draped with a sheet or towel throughout the session, with only the area being worked on uncovered at any time. If you prefer to keep certain clothing on, such as underwear, that is completely acceptable.
Tipping norms
Tipping practices vary by setting. At spas and independent practices, tipping is generally customary when you receive good service. Common gratuity ranges from 15 to 20 percent, similar to other personal services.
In clinical or medical settings, tipping may be less common or even discouraged. If you are unsure, it is perfectly acceptable to ask the front desk about the practice's norms.
If gratuity is not feasible for you, know that a sincere thank-you and returning for future visits are also meaningful ways to show appreciation.
Your First Visit: A Step-by-Step Walkthrough
Knowing what to expect can help you feel more comfortable, especially if this is your first massage.
Before you arrive
Complete any intake forms the practice sends ahead of time. These typically ask about your health history, areas of concern, and goals for the session. Be honest about any conditions, injuries, medications, or concerns that might affect your care.
Arrive a few minutes early to check in and use the restroom. Avoid heavy meals right before your appointment, and consider skipping caffeine if you want to feel relaxed.
When you arrive
The front desk or therapist will greet you and confirm your appointment. If you did not complete intake forms beforehand, you may fill them out at this time.
Your therapist will likely have a brief conversation with you before starting. This is the time to share:
- Your goals for the session
- Any areas you want them to focus on or avoid
- Your pressure preferences
- Any health concerns or questions
During the session
Your therapist will step out while you undress and get on the table. You will be covered with a sheet, and the therapist will knock before re-entering.
Throughout the session, the therapist will undrape only the area being worked on. You can request adjustments to pressure or technique at any time. A good therapist will check in periodically, and you are always in control of the pace and intensity of the work.
After the session
When the session ends, the therapist will step out so you can dress at your own pace. Take a moment to sit up slowly, especially if you feel relaxed or drowsy.
The therapist may offer aftercare suggestions, such as drinking water, gentle stretching, or applying heat to specific areas. They may also discuss whether follow-up sessions would be helpful based on your goals.
Pay and schedule any future appointments at the front desk. If you felt comfortable with the therapist and the session met your needs, booking your next visit before leaving can help maintain continuity.
How to Choose a Quality Massage Therapist
The best therapist is the one who is trained for your goal, communicates clearly, and respects your comfort.
Look for these signals
- Clear intake and health history questions
- A short conversation about your goals before the session starts
- Explanations of what they recommend and why
- Ongoing check-ins about pressure and comfort
- Respect for your boundaries and consent at every step
- Transparent pricing, timing, and policies
- Relevant training and experience for your specific goal
- If your state licenses massage therapists, a license number you can verify through NCBTMB
Red flags to take seriously
- No intake or questions about your health history
- Refusal to answer training or experience questions
- Promises to cure conditions or guaranteed outcomes
- Pressure to buy large packages before a first visit
- Ignoring pain or disregarding your stated preferences
- Blurred professional boundaries or improper draping
- Encouraging you to stop medical care or medication
Questions to ask before booking
- What training do you have for my specific goal?
- How do you decide pressure and technique?
- What should I expect during and after the session?
- Have you worked with clients like me?
- Do you coordinate with a care team if needed?
- What is your pricing and cancellation policy?
Insurance and Receipts
Coverage varies by plan. If insurance matters to you, confirm benefits with your insurer and ask the therapist whether they can submit claims or provide a receipt for out-of-network reimbursement.
Finding Massage Therapists on Nusu
Nusu is a discovery platform designed to help consumers compare wellness therapists with greater transparency. The platform organizes massage therapists by location and service type, displays reviews and ratings where available, and ranks results based on factors like verification status, profile completeness, and client feedback rather than paid placement.
For a high-level overview of how presences are organized, see how ranking works on Nusu. If you're unable to find a massage therapist in your area, you can also search the American Massage Therapy Association directory.
When to Seek Medical Care Instead
Massage can be supportive, but it is not the right first step for every situation. If you have red-flag symptoms, seek medical evaluation.
| Situation | Consider |
|---|---|
| Sudden severe pain, fever, unexplained weight loss, numbness, or weakness | Urgent medical care or a clinician evaluation. |
| New injury, post-surgical recovery, or persistent pain without a diagnosis | A clinician or physical therapist for assessment; massage can be added with clearance. |
| Mental health crisis or trauma support | A licensed mental health professional. |
Disclaimer
This guide is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. For health concerns or symptoms, seek care from qualified medical professionals.